Friday, December 24, 2010

About Rex Harley

Height:   5'10"
Weight:   135 lbs
Waist:   32"
Body Type:   Toned (mostly)
Piercings:   Prince Albert (6 or 8 gauge),
Guiche (10 gauge),
Right Ear (6 gauge),
Nose Ring - Septum (14 gauge)
Tattoos:   Popeye on Right arm

Services Rex Provides
Writing: Blogging, articles, books...
Video: Porn, Erotic Education...
Web Design: Interactive web pages

Services Rex will provide in the future

Erotic Massage:
Trust me to satisfy your deepest needs and desires of acceptance
Speaking: The benefits of sex. Sex is good. Sexuality and Spirituality are compatible
Knowledge Organization: Making sense of the world in the age of information overload

Contact info
Rex Harley Unlimited
8760 A Research Blvd #297
Austin, TX 78758
Tel: (512) 394-8765
Fax: (512) 853-3557


News Links
Spiritual/Wisdom Links
Education Links
Sacred Intimates Links
Freedom Links
Business Links

Mission and Vision

Mission Statement

My mission is to be an opening through which God can manifest in the world and to be of service to others as a lover, healer, and creator.

Vision Statement

My vision is to claim authority over my life, to explore and heal shame in myself and others, and to contribute to the health and welfare of the Earth.

I put God first. I give myself to God daily. I ask for guidance when I share my sexuality. I ask for help in finding the unity of my superficially separate identities. Please join me on this journey and teach me how to be open, honest and authentic in everything I do.

My spirituality is important to me. This was a problem for me. We often get messages that to embrace our spirituality, we must abandon our sexuality and sensuality. And conversely that if we want to be sexual and experience our animal instincts, we can't be spiritual. This is not acceptable to me. I must have both. So my life's mission has become exploring the boundary between sexuality and spirituality and exploring it. My goal is to show that there is no boundary except what we invent in our minds.

I'm very sexual. As a gay man, I've been spreading my sexual wings since I was a teenager. I've experienced many sexual partners, tastes, acts and fetishes. There's very little I won't try or haven't enjoyed. Despite being quiet, I'm also an exhibitionist. In my earlier sexual exploration, I got alot of positive feedback. Being watched and appreciated while I'm having sex or masturbating feeds my arousal. So I decided to use that. I'm older now and am not the type who can make a living in porn, but I enjoy it anyway. So I built this website.

What is Orgasmic Yoga?

I began the Yoga of Sex course from the The New School of Erotic Touch. My first assignment was to observe a daily spiritual practice of orgasmic yoga for thirty days. That was the beginning of my practice.

I have a daily orgasmic yoga practice, but what does that mean? In his Yoga of Sex course, Joseph Kramer says "Orgasmic Yoga is a pleasurable, intimate and transformative discipline, practiced while sexually aroused."

My practice typically lasts between 40 to 60 minutes. It involves self erotic massage and/or erotic trance dancing. My goal in my practice is to release my healing ability, to reconnect sexual arousal with the feeling of love, to reach a higher consciousness and to remember that there are more important things than the day to day grind and it can't be taken from you. I also participate in a communal orgasmic yoga practice called the Three Circle Ritual. I've posted many of my orgasmic yoga experiences on my adult blog.

If you would like to join me as a participant or an observer: My Orgasmic Yoga Practice

We are all worthy of experiencing pleasure. I've accepted that for myself. I like both giving and receiving pleasure. The more pleasure in the world, the better the world. Have an orgasm for world peace today!

What is a Sacred Intimate?

I've been asked "What is a sacred intimate?" The only quick answer I have is that a sacred intimate is a temple whore. :) The truth is more difficult to communicate.

A sacred intimate uses erotic energy to heal. We teach that sex is sacred. We teach that sex is shameless. We like to help others tap into their own erotic power and find freedom to feel orgasmic joy without guilt. We help people let go of the emotional baggage that keeps them from being sexually fulfilled. I offer sexual/spiritual love and acceptance. I'm here to serve in whatever capacity you need that I can offer.

We're also available to celebrate sexuality and spirituality with others who don't have difficulties they wish to overcome.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Temple Photos

These are some pictures of the temple my partner and I built. I intend to use it for my own spiritual practice which includes honing my skills as a sacred intimate and healer.

Because my Sacred Intimate Treasure Map includes some graphic images, I decided to post it on my adult blog here: On that page, you'll also find a video walk through of the temple. Minors are NOT WELCOME to view the adult blog.

If you would like to join me as a participant or an observer: My Orgasmic Yoga Practice

This dream catcher from Alaska is the inspiration for the colors of the temple

The chaise

The erotic artwork above the chaise

The alter

The four stones from Dear Love of Comrades

Me, Rex Harley

Please email me your suggestions for improvement.